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Short Story

How it works

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People are capable, at anytime in their lives, of doing what they dream of.

– Paulo Coelho

How many of you feel that something is missing?

Something, which might be important in your life but it isn’t there, and so you feel numb.

You are doing just fine, but something is not right.

That something, most of the times is your happiness.

Because, no matter how well you’re doing, if you don’t like doing it, either work or relationships, that real happiness will always be missing.

Have you read the book ‘the secret’ by Rhonda Byrne, and ‘the alchemist’ by Paulo Coelho.

These are my two favourite books, and both of them focuses on how to fulfil your dreams and deepest desries.

Do you have something that you really want?

Then tell the universe that you want it, and you might get it.

The law of attraction comes in action there,

Let us all come together and see how it works……….

” “

One Sunday morning I was casually reading, when I came across some interesting stuff.

I’ve read mostly about business and success, but something different caught my eye that day.

There was an article about achieving goals by believing and imagining it happen. I was intrigued and started scanning through it.

It was very philosophical, it included all the things like impact of thoughts, process of success, power of imagination, the subconscious mind, and so on.

I was quite fascinated and wanted to try some of that right away and so I made an action plan.

Recently I was given a product survey, more like a test for audience interest before the launch. And for that I had put up a brief seminar.

It was a perfume in an elegantly shaped bottle so as to give it an exquisite look. The scent was refreshing as well as soothing and in three different variety.

I made a short presentation on the specifications and pros and cons of the product with a whole hearted speech on why it is different and worth buying.

Which went extremely under expectation. But I was convinced that the product wasn’t that bad and thus, I continued making plans to impress more people so they would invest in that product.

I felt or somehow anticipated, I was short on something and that was causing the hinderance in my success.

After reading that article I thought of a different approach in the advertisement of the product.

Though I knew that the product was good and worth the time and money, I first tested if out by myself and made a video of it.

I went to some people who came to the seminar and asked them if they were willing to state their experience of that day in front of the camera. Luckily, some of them agreed.

I invited those people over to my home, greeted them merrily, offered them tea, talked for a while, then asked a few questions before they left.

I interviewed each of them individually giving everyone enough time to speak, sat beside them to make them comfortable and feel like just a normal conversation.

Most of them knew me already and so it was even more satisfying. I had a pleasant time attending to them and I felt grateful for the time they spared for me.

After they left, I sat by myself thinking about the recent events.

In the article it was written that if you feel good, everything that happens will be good. This was the first thing or a trick, that I applied with today’s hosting.

And it turns out that it really works. Not for a second I let myself feel that the people might be here to criticize, and guess what, they didn’t.

It was very amusing and I kept smiling by myself. Afterall why won’t I, I was really happy.

I started making an advertisement for yet another seminar, this time I kept it more authentic and added a funny but appealing tag line.

I sent it out to my company in the noon and they approved it till evening.

This time I had kept the seminar exclusive, added some personal invitees and it got a little high budget.

Most of the times advertisements and venues with high budget never got approved, but I was just confident before sending it out and it really got accepted.

After the news spread in the company premises, I got a few calls from my colleagues to inquire how I got the deal.

I had no explanation but only the belief in myself and I simply told them, though they hardly accepted it. I then invited them all plus one guest each.

This made them happy as well, and I got a few more visitors. I didn’t know how I got that idea, it was random but perfect.

I was now left with a few days before the seminar, so I started editing the video and making a fine presentation.

And for ten to fifteen minutes, twice a day, I would imagine how the whole program will happen.

In doing so I actually started believing the things I thought were really happening and that made me even more confident.

The day of the seminar came, there were so many people in the room. I was a little nervous but it didn’t scare me.

I showed the presentation first, it was of three slides and I have added a few funny characters and a story to it. Everyone laughed and so I can assume that they liked it.

Next, I showed the video of what were the views of people and how well we got along.

In the end of the video I added another funny clip, in which I was spraying the perfume in the room and on me as well.

“Yes, I did that.” I laughed and asked, “How did you like the smell of my home, those who were there?”

I got all the positive comments and an applause for my presentation. And that happened just like I imagined.

Of all the things, that clapping of hands was the exact representation of my imagination and it was the thing that mattered the most.

After that, the head of our project came up on the stage and surprised everyone by announcing the official launch of the product.

He stood on the stage beside me, asked me not to leave, thanked me for my efforts as he gave a speech and we cut the ribbon together for the launch.

After that, there was a launch party and an investors summit.

People were coming up to me and appreciating, which was extremely flattering and unexpected.

I was on cloud nine that day, and I know now if I feel good, good things will come my way.

” “

Conclusion,

  • Our subconscious mind has tremendous potential, if you feed it the right information, it is very likely to happen.
  • It is true that if you feel good, all the good things will happen, because you will find good in everything and vice versa.
  • If you are giving out positive vibes and feeling positive, you will attract positivity.
  • Imagination helps too, because if you can imagine it you can do it. Start from the little things, if you imagine saying something to someone, you will find yourself doing that in real sooner or later.
  • Believe in yourself, it is the most important thing or a gift you could give yourself.

Hello everyone…..!

How is this little dose of motivation treating you?

Feel free to comment and let me know.

If you’d like, read the book ‘the alchemist’, it’s really motivating and my personal favourite.

Do like and share this post if you think it can help someone,

Untill then, see you next time.

Short Story

Anxiety.

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When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

– Wayne Dyer

I am writing this one especially because our generations has faced the most changes.

And the competitions are increasing day by day, in all the fields.

People nowadays are more likely to ignore feelings over benefits.

In this fast changing world, many of us may feel left behind and neglected.

The need for more, never ends. If one has money, they need more. If one has fame, they want more and so on.

Either we have or we do not, at the end of the day something is always missing and we feel anxious.

We think no one understands, because no one listens or no one has the time to, right?

That’s not true.

This post is for everyone out there, who thinks no one care, We have each other.

Let us read together and share and understand……….

” “

It feels like my whole life is passing by and I have no power over it. I am always being ordered to do things.

Whether it is in school or home, I feel like I’m always being pushed over.

I am tired of living like this, there’s no one to whom I can tell how I feel because everyone is so busy with their own problems.

‘Today at school I will try to be better, to be useful and it will be a good day.’ I told myself as I got up from bed.

I didn’t know what was coming today, most of my days were weary and problematic.

It was like trouble always found it’s way to me, and I always stood there waiting for it.

No one wants to be like that and neither do I. There are people who have so many friends and almost everyone likes them and then there’s me always invisible.

Sometimes I feel jealous for what others have and I do not and it’s like I am missing out on so much but I have no other choice, I am like that from the start ‘ the nonexistent one ‘.

As I stepped through the school gate, my one and only friend approached me with a huge smile and greeted me.

I liked hanging out with him, together we both were ‘ the invisibles ‘, that’s a funny name I know and it was his idea.

He is the funny one and I am the one with brain. Haha I’m just kidding, we both are equally intelligent and funny, at least that’s what I think.

The only difference we have is that I care too much about the people around us and what they think, and he doesn’t.

The day was no different than others until we entered the cafeteria where someone accidentally spilled their cup of ice cream on me.

I was immediately the source of laughter and fun for everyone in the room. People were laughing and making fun of me as they usually do.

And I stood there numb, waiting for it to stop but it never did. I was then dragged away by my friend and I went to the bathroom to clean up.

The stains were still on my clothes, my friend wanted to talk to me about the incident and apparently I didn’t want to.

“Why do these things happen to me.” was the only thing I said as I rushed off to the class, and he followed.

As I entered all the eyes were on us again, those weird and freaky looks can never get old. People were eyeing and making fun of me just because of one stupid ice cream.

I cannot believe how pathetic that was and it was still happening, I couldn’t get my mind off of it even if I tried, he distracted me a few times but I was back on those thoughts again and again.

Even when the lecture was ongoing I was turning my head right and left just to make sure that I wasn’t laughed at anymore.

Which again caused me trouble, as the teacher saw me scanning the class and I was scolded for misbehaviour. Hence embarrassing myself once more.

When the lecture ended I stood up straight to leave as soon as possible, I heard someone call out to me and I knew it was just to make fun and so I didn’t turn back.

But then few more people started shouting my name so I looked at them all the sudden and I collided with the person behind me.

At this point my anger was uncontrollable and I ran out of there without stopping till I was outside the corridor.

I sat on the grass in the school campus, I was overwhelmed with emotions but still maintained my cool and stayed silent.

My friend was right behind me, he sat there with me, that too without saying anything. And I really liked that, because I wasn’t able to talk.

He waited till I was able to say anything and so we can have a conversation. I spoke eventually, I didn’t know what to say so I asked how he was doing.

And he laughed, he literally just laughed at me again. I punched him so he can shut his mouth and stop making me feel so miserable for doing nothing more but speaking.

“Am I really a joke or a fool that everyone finds something humorous about and start laughing at?” I inquired concernedly,

“No, you are not.” he said,

“Then why do these things happen to me.” I complained, he shrugged,

We sat there until the bell rang and it was time for the last class, I was not sure of going in again as I stood in the premises,

“Just don’t pay attention to anyone.” he advised,

“Easy for you to say.” I claimed, and he laughed again giving me the strength to walk in.

I tried not to look at anyone and simply sat on the chair, paying attention to the teacher till the end. Then I left the class as calmly as I could.

On my way out, someone stopped in front of me, I looked up to inquire what the matter was and they just started belittling me.

“What’s the matter?” I asked,

“We know you do all that stupid stuff only because you want attention.” they said cruelly,

“Are you mad, who would even want that.” I cried,

They didn’t stop their accusations and I just ran away from their and headed straight home, and again the dear friend chase was on.

He screamed my name as I ran and ran, not stopping even to take a breath. He caught me eventually and made me sit on the nearest bench.

“Why are you doing this to yourself?” he said after a while,

“I am doing, really you too? From the moment I wake up to the one I go to bed everything goes wrong, bad things happen around me always, I try so hard to see that nothing goes wrong but everything does. Sometimes, I don’t even wanna get up from bed because I know nothing good is ever going to happen to me.” I spoke with tears in my eyes,

“That’s where you are wrong.” he said, I sat quietly listening to him,

“You see, most of your problems are in your head. You always think that you are going to embarrass yourself and then you do. I’m not saying that you are doing this on purpose, but it is highly affecting you. You are not less than anyone else in that room, you are not the troublemaker, problems not only come to you. So don’t create a situation in your head that makes you think any of that. You know, you are the best and the most effective person I’ve ever met, don’t let that hide in the clouds of your concerns. You are not the problem, and you don’t create problems. Stop thinking that, be the best of yourself. I know who you are, so let me help you see it and smile because you know who you are, not what people tell you.” he affirmed.

I smiled, not because he told me to but because I knew he was right. I do think a lot and then end up having doubts about myself.

We sat there for a while then, he kept telling me how great I am and I kept laughing, well probably because it was too much, but I didn’t doubt myself for once then and forever.

” “

So this type situation can also form in your work environment or around your siblings, but trust me when I say this ‘no one can see who you truly are, unless you do yourself’.

Conclusion

  • As written earlier ‘most of your problems are in your head’, so think positive, think good about yourself, because if you’ll love yourself, you won’t even worry about who loves you or who doesn’t.
  • Don’t beat yourself up over what others think of you because they don’t know you. So you either show them your true side or don’t worry at all.
  • No matter how bad you think the situation is, it will all clear up, it will all be okay, just believe in yourself.
  • Having self doubt is for a few seconds is okay, but get up and back on track the next second.
  • People laugh, mostly to hide their own insecurities, don’t let them get you down.

Hello everyone, I don’t know how this article helped you, or even if it did or not,

but it helped me a lot, because to think that somebody is out there reading this and smiling is the greatest gift of all.

Do comment, and share this experience with me, as well as with others if you like.

Have a good day and see you next time.

Short Story

Focus

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The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus.

– Bruce lee

It is usually not easy to be focused on one thing,

Nowadays, people have several tasks on hand to take care of,

And each of them are considered equally important.

Do you do that too?

Well I have to say, I do.

There are so many things to see-to and then we get lost between them.

And being entangled, one might not find the very thing that they need.

Thus, focus is a very tricky and essential part of life.

Let’s blur out everything for a moment and focus on a our imagination………

” “

I was sitting on the chair, in front of my computer trying to write an article which I had to submit within two days to the magazine I work for.

It was an important task but also very tiring one. I had to sit through hours and think up stuff to write.

While I was writing, mom called me to help her move the winter clothes from upper cabinets to empty space in the cupboard, where everyone can easily take them.

I asked her if anyone else was free to help her, but no one was home and so I have to get up and do it.

After completing the moving, I thought of the work I had pending and went back to my desk.

But I was too lazy to do that again for hours. And so, I thought I should take a break and refresh my mind.

I bought some snacks from the kitchen to my room and started watching the series I very much like.

I didn’t realise how much time I spent on that until mom called again and asked me to go to the store to buy some missing ingredients for dinner.

As soon as I got back from the store I started working on the article with all my concentration.

After a little while, I was called for dinner. Everyone was already on the table and I greeted them all.

We had a nice supper and chat, and later I helped mom to do the dishes.

I usually wait for two hours before going to bed and in that time I completed other stuff I was concerned with.

Like, making a schedule for the next day, organising my desk, analysing the work and the other activities I did that day and so on.

By the time I completed all my chores, I was already feeling sleepy and so I climbed the bed and grabbed a book to read, as it is my habit to read before I sleep.

After waking up the next morning and getting ready for work, I got multiple texts from the office that I have to run some errands before arriving there.

And here I go again, following my routine, just doing things and sometimes not even liking them.

This is what I’ve been doing for a while now, just wake up, go to work, come back in the evening and go to bed, I’m quite fed up and I don’t know why.

I chose the work of writing because I liked doing it very much, but now it is just tiresome.

The only thing I enjoy in my day now, is the reading that I do before I go to bed.

‘How did things turn out this way? when did I lose interest in my work?’ I asked myself.

I was so much hopefull and high spirited person, I chose what I loved to do and still I was living just a mediocre and stressful life.

“It was never supposed to be this way.” I told myself, and so I took a day off from the office to figure out what I want and how.

Though I had to turn in the article on time and so I worked late that night and completed it to have the next day completely to myself.

This morning as I woke up, I was ready to learn something new about myself. I was prepared to find out the reason where I changed.

I walked downstairs and had breakfast, spent some quality time with my family and then all got busy in their respective works.

I had nothing to do and so I thought of going to a library, my favourite place on earth.

There I read some old magazines where I had published my articles and I noticed that overtime my writings have became more statistical than creative.

The reason why that happened was because I started feeling reserved while working.

I had set boundaries and limits in which I completed my work and that made it more tedious than intresting.

And those limits were because I always had something else on hand to complete that it diverted my attention.

Though it wasn’t only the time limit but the way I looked at what I did, that made it more lenthy.

Now that I know what made me so grumpy about the things I do, I had to find a way to associate with everything and make the best out of it.

My passion still lied in writing and so I decided to give it my complete attention for at least two hours in a day.

And in that time I will not take any other task in between. Or even better, I will complete any other important things first and then make my writing my leisure time.

Conclusion.

  • Focus is something which isn’t easy to hold, but does a lot of good when given properly.
  • Everyone says to ‘find your passion’ but it isn’t always butterflies and unicorns in doing that, so to make the best out of your passion and yourself, you will have to love it unconditionally.
  • It is only logical that you can not do just one thing in a whole day and so it’s okay to sit back, relax and entertain yourself, but the real test is when you’re doing something productive which won’t be so much entertaining and you will have to say yes to the work and no to the pleasure, that’s only when you grow.

Hello everyone, how are you doing?

Have you found your passion yet? NO?

It’s okay, you will soon.

Till then keep reading, and if you like my post do share it with someone who can relate.

And if you have to ask me anything or tell me something, comment below.

Thanks for reading with me.

Have a great time ahead.

Short Story

Do not worry, just get up.

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Amateurs sit and wait for inspiration, the rest of us get up and go to work.

– Stephen King

Has something or someone ever let you down so bad, that you can’t feel the need to get up again?

The thing can be your most priced possesion or an asset.

The person can be you. Who let you down.

Have you ever felt so drowned that giving up is the only way you can see?

But you know what, it isn’t the only way.

It is hard to rebuild, but it isn’t impossible.

Let’s find out a way together…………

” “

One day, in the morning I woke up with a notification on my phone that the website which I was building and running successfully has went down.

It took me almost a year to increase it’s reach and now all of it just vanished.

Nothing is more exhausting and devastating than this. What am I supposed to do now?

Sit back, relax, wait for everything to go back to normal? Well, what if it doesn’t?

How can I relax, when I can’t even breath. Everything seems to be falling apart.

I am static on my bed, can’t move or don’t want to move.

It’s like every piece of me is shedding little by little and there’s nothing I could do.

If I say it out loud, the only answer I will get is that I’m overreacting. But I am really not, I do feel crushed.

Only I know how much it took to establish something like that and now that it’s gone, I know nothing anymore.

How am I supposed to cope this feeling, hide the emotions? I can’t, but no one will understand so ultimately I have to.

“Wake up with a smile little one.” I told myself and got up from bed.

I tried to be normal the rest of the day. I smiled a little more, so that the pain would not show.

Everyone, close to me, knew about that incident and kept asking what happend. I simply answered and tried to changed the topic.

Then they would say ‘don’t worry you’ll get it back, everything will be fine.’

It’s easy to say everything will be fine, but it’s me who is going through with it and I know I can’t keep calm.

At those times, I wanted to scream and cry and shout loud enough that my voice reach the sky, but instead I kept quiet and smiled.

It was like a storm inside of me which can’t come out. And it continued for a several days.

I kept waiting for everything to get back to normal. I even tried many things to make it work properly again but everything in vain.

Until one day, something happened that made me realise, it’s not the end of the world and I could start seeing it as an opportunity.

I was walking back home one evening, when I saw an old couple sitting in their lawn conversing about something.

They waved at me as I passed them and I stepped towards the lawn, took a chair and seated myself.

I always greeted them in the morning, on my way to work and their smile always lighten up my heart.

That day, they asked me if I was okay, and I said yes. I didn’t understand why they asked me such a thing, but I felt good.

We sat there, chatted for a few minutes. They offered me cookies and tea, and told me stories about their youth.

It fascinated me in a way, I was thoroughly enjoying my time there. And for once my mind was off the breakdown of my website.

Then they started telling me about how they met. It was one winter afternoon at a cafe, far from town.

It turned out they both were there at the same camp and later, met again at dinner.

The old man told me that he tried very much but the lady won’t fall for anything. He said that she didn’t like his short height.

And yet, here they are together, enjoying each others company and living their best life. I was happy to have had this encounter.

And later I asked how they had maintained such a healthy relationship and they told me everythign about it.

How they supported each other through hard times and persevered in life.

They teased each other on the topic of not being able to do things and it continued for a while.

I left there when the sun almost went down, walked towards home with a completely different feeling.

I wasn’t sad anymore. The conversation was going on in my mind and I was smiling to myself.

As I stepped forward the smile grew wider and in no time I started laughing, really hard.

I was not concerned if someone would think I was a fool but insted I was happy, and I shared a smile or two on my way home.

Though whatever happened with my site may or may not be in my best interest, but dwelling on the loss is definitely not for the best.

To be that much happy when you grow old, is to never give up on the things you love.

Conclusion.

  • It’s ok to feel sad if you lose something, but it is necessary to move on.
  • Nothing will happen unless you would make it happen.
  • Downfall is often like a trampoline, so jump twice back up.
  • It’s not late to start and never too late to start over. So, just get back out there and do it.
  • It’ll be tough, no doubt. But you’ll make it. Believe in yourself.

Hey, everyone….

How have you been?

I’m really sorry for not posting last week, as I was slightly busy with my cousin’s wedding.

I hope you all enjoy my posts. Do comment and let me know.

Share as well, if you like it.

See you next time.

Short Story

Not soon, now!

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There are several times where I had left things to do later,
 
And then I might have forgotten it. 
 
How many of you had done the same?
 
A few times maybe, right?
 
Well, we have something in common then. 
 
But don’t you think, if that thing which we delayed might have lead to something good, 
 
If only it was done, when it was supposed to. 
 
I think that too. Wow, that’s two common attributes in a row. 
 
Can we just go back in past and make things right?
 
No we can’t!
 
Then what can we do?
 
Let’s find out together………
 
 
” “
 
It’s winter morning, I am cozy in my bed, not wanting to get out, but it is an important day so I had to wake up early.
 
I looked out the window, the weather didn’t seem so good and I stayed in bed for a few more minutes.
 
Clouds forming in the sky, winds blowing over the trees.
 
The sky is a perfect combination of blue and grey. It keep fascinating me.
 
I started wondering how my day will be. I am to meet a childhood friend, more like a mentor.
 
She has helped me through many circumstances of my life, she was my senior and now she is a professor at a big university.
 
I’m so excited to meet her, there hasn’t been much contact between us since she left the city, but I know that the bond is still strong. 
 
I realised that I got so lost thinking about all the memories we had together that I fell asleep again.
 
I stood right up as soon as I opened my eyes. I had an assignment to take care of and so I rushed to the bathroom to get ready. 
 
Because of my early reminising, I reached late at the university. And so, all the faculty members had already left for the lunch break. 
 
I cannot even believe I lost that much time in the morning, all I did was have breakfast at home and leave as soon as I could.
 
Where did I spent so much time that it’s already lunch break?
 
Oh yes! I was at my friend’s shop, reading comics. They were truly interesting, I almost lost the track of time.
 
I called a friend to sit with me outside the staff room, until someone arrives and I could submit my assignment.
 
As he came, he asked me if I filled up the online survey form related to the assignment and apparently, I had totally forgot about it.  
 
I remember keeping that for later, and then I never did it. I immediately turned on the internet and looked for the form to fill up.
 
It was almost complete when the network went down, and then I had to fill it up again. 
 
Then I realised it wasn’t the network but the website which wasn’t working properly.
 
And so, it took me a few tries before I submitted my survey. finally, completing my assignment.
 
I wanted to meet her( my mentor ) as soon as I leave the university and so I called. But alas, she was busy. 
 
At first she was in town just for one day, but luckily now she is staying a few days and so I can meet her anytime.
 
I could talk to her about so many things, I can even ask her what should I do after graduation.
 
She is so good at giving advises, I truly admire her, and I’m getting so hyped on the thought of meeting her after a long time.  
 
As I reached home, it was evening already and mom was making dinner. I greeted her and paced towards my room. 
 
Most of the things were spread on the floor because of my morning rush and so I took them all and lay them on the bed. 
 
I felt so tried that I skipped cleaning and flee downstairs to eat. 
 
It was my turn to take out the trash and so after dinner I went to put it out. There I saw my neighbour and stopped for a brief chat.
 
As I stepped in my room, after completing all the chores, it was still a mess and I felt exhausted.
 
I wanted to clean but I didn’t and again threw everything on the floor. What a busy day it was!
 
I fell asleep as soon as I dropped on bed. Gradually, leaving the reality for the world of dreams.
 
The first thought I had in the morning was not to be lazy, I got up early and planned my day.
 
The most important thing I listed was meeting her( my mentor) because if I delayed it, she might as well leave and we can’t even meet.
 
I had it all in my head, things to do in the day. For once I thought of listing it in a paper, but then I didn’t. Who has that much time to waste.
 
During breakfast, dad read me the headlines from the newspaper. “The world is changing so fast.” he said at last and I smiled and left.
 
Even though I had planned everything out for today, it was again the same as yesterday.
 
Somehow, nothing changed. I still had some work pending from the university, I had to clean my room.
 
And there was an important application which I had to fill up, about a reserved lecture I was very much intrested in.  
 
All of it is yet pending, I can’t remember where I spent my whole day. I’ve always been like this, but it never bothered me till now.
 
Maybe it was because I wasn’t able to meet her, or maybe it’s just because there is so much left to do and I’m stressing about everything.  
 
Well, if it is stress, I must sleep on it then. I’ll figure everything out tomorrow. 
 
But did I really figure it out? Yes I did and I learned it the hard way. 
 
This morning, I had several pending tasks and I was all set to complete them in time. 
 
First thing, I opened my laptop, connected it to the internet and started filling up that form and submitted it.
 
There was a slight buffering after i submitted and so I put it aside and started cleaning my room.
 
I was getting too many notifications on my phone and so I sat for a few minutes to check if I got anything urgent.
 
And as usual, there was nothing much important, but still I wound up scrolling through social media.
 
As soon as I realised the waste of time, I put the phone to silent mode, turned the music on and resumed the cleaning.
 
I had pushed it aside for too long and so there was so much cleaning to do. It took me almost all day, but my room looked much better.    
 
I took a few minute rest, read few pages of a book, lay on bed for a while.
 
As I saw the time, I jumped up, took my phone and saw I had calls and texts from her. She was leaving today and I haven’t yet talked to her.   
 
Her train was about to leave in half an hour and she tried to contact me to meet before that but I forgot that I put the phone to silent.
 
I rushed to the bathroom, changed, and then went straight downstairs.
 
Mom stopped me to ask why I was in a hurry and I had to explain her the situation.
 
I took off as soon as I could, the station was far and so I drove fast, but I knew it was almost impossible to reach before the train leaves.
 
All the way, I thought if only I had cleaned my room earlier, non of it would have happened.
 
I reached the station and saw the train leaving in front of my eyes. It was a sore sight.
 
There was nothing I could do, but regret.  
 
” “
(Try understanding this story by keeping ‘the mentor/she’ as a metaphor for what you want to achieve or do in life)
 
Conclusion
  • If you think, you have enough time, you are wrong. Think twice before postponing anything that means something to you. 
  • You might get a second chance, but not many. Be wise and grab the opportunity as soon as it comes. 
  • You only will be responsible for whatever you get and do not. It’s your choice. 
  • It is better to do something, no matter how difficult, than to regret not doing it. 

Hey there!

I am very happy to see that you’re reading this and I really hope you have a great time.

And if you like it, please do share.

Thanks again,

See you next time!! 

  

Short Story

You can’t make people believe, Unless you do.

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Do you have faith in yourself?
 
How much?
 
If I told you, ‘you can jump off a building and not get hurt.’
 
Would you believe me?
 
Now if I add a few words in that sentence like ‘you will jump off a building in a chute and you won’t get hurt.’
 
You believe me now, right?
 
Why am I telling you this? It’s not even relevant, don’t you think?
 
Well, maybe it is.
 
You see, at first, even I didn’t believe that one can be unharmed after jumping off a building.
 
But then I added a resource through which I can achieve the first activity or say goal.
 
So, when I believed it can happen, you believed it too.
 
Let’s see how can we have this attitude and put it in good use……….
 
 
” “
 
The one thing that I feared most was negligence. I couldn’t stand being ignored.
 
I have this urge of pleasing people around me that I can’t cope. ‘Why is that?’ I ask myself but get no conclusion.
 
It does me no good and eventually I end up hurting myself. And the worst thing is I do it to myself.
 
I can’t blame anyone, I can’t complain to anyone. I can do nothing but be sad about it.
 
Is this, how it will be, for the rest of my life. Why can’t I change?
 
All of this is so pathetic, and I don’t even know why can’t I stop thinking about it.
 
Well, what else can I do, I might as well think that I’m hopeless. Or am I not?
 
The morning when I told myself something different from what I’ve been telling myself so far was the day when it all began.
 
I was on my way to a seminar held by one of the students from our batch to get more attention and help for the project work their team was doing.
 
Usually, all I did at events like these was either fall asleep or make fun along with the people around me.
 
But today I decided to watch and learn. To find out what potential is out there and how much patience do I hold.
 
The seminar started impressively, the beginning was good, the presentation was good but then somehow the quality depleted.
 
And as it continued, it turned out to be extremely tedious and the person who arranged could see it too, so he ended the presentation abruptly with a nice good bye.
 
I couldn’t understand what happened. The beginning was good then how come it turned this way.
 
I went home thinking about the event all the way. And I realised that it was because no one was properly paying attention.
 
I was once a kid like that, making fun of others to fit in myself, with the people around me.
 
I was disturbed by what happened, it was so bad for that person. I could see how high hopes he had but they just were crushed.
 
Why? Because he was trying to do something the others didn’t.
 
How can I ever be a part of something like that, I don’t like hurting people but unknowingly I’ve done it maybe.   
 
All of this was making no sense , it seemed like I was trapped in a certain reality and there is no escape.
 
I didn’t know where I was going, I didn’t know what was happening, I felt like screaming but no one was listening.
 
I was getting so frustrated. If it was a dream I needed to wake up immediately, but unfortunately it wasn’t.
 
It is life and it will go on, never stopping for anyone.
 
I dropped down on a bench, at the side walk, staring at a distance. Breathing deep.
 
I did nothing for a while, not even a thought, just sat there, feeling numb.
 
The wind was cold, the clouds in the sky were moving slow, squirrels were playing around the trees, it was a beautiful scenario.
 
Little by little, I got over every overwhelming feeling and there in that moment I felt peace.
 
I took out a book from my bag and wrote everything I was feeling, all the things that I was sad about, everything that I was depressed about, and then everything that I was happy about.
 
And my biggest gratitude was that ‘I am alive and I have this life.’
 
I inserted a different perspective, and as I did, there in that moment I felt alive. More than ever.
 
I let go of the things that I couldn’t control, I let go of all the sadness and it left me with things to be grateful about.
 
I know I’ve tried hard to be a part of something, but I always forgot that I am something too, someone who is not meant to fit in.
 
I smiled for everything that has happened so far in that day, and the day before and for the life I’ve had.
 
I smiled wide enough to let it reach my heart and leave a mark forever.   
 
“Tomorrow will always be happier than today, and today is going to be the best day” I wrote at last and got up to walk home.
 
The next day, as I now believed something different will happen, I saw myself as a more reasonable and more self dependent person.
 
And when I went downstairs and had an interaction with my sibling, that was the moment when I realised those were just thoughts, and nothing actually changed.
 
I am the same old person, the people around me are the same. Who was I kidding.
 
But then I thought, why give up?  what do I have to loose? 
 
So I took out that book again and read what I had written, and those were some really good motivating lines. 
 
Hence, I again felt good and decided to overcome anything coming in my way by having a look at the book. 
 
There were many moments in my day, where I could have behaved as I was meant to by the society, but I didn’t.
 
And that really helped me enjoy my day, far more than I ever did.
 
Though I wasn’t with many people but the few, whom I was with taught me a lot, and I was grateful for that.
 
Now this attitude of mine was attracting many good people and opportunities.
 
This was the time when I started my first ever community center at college.
 
I knew the idea was huge and it would take up most of time but I wanted to do it and so I did.    
 
The first thing I did was to make sure people were willing to join me and so I designed flyers all night to make me look more serious about it. 
 
The next day when I put up the posters and sent out the invites, a very few persons were there to be a part of it. 
 
It was a little disappointing, but ok, I wasn’t giving up hope. 
 
I went to the faculty members to get permission for my program and I was very excited to get started, but alas they said ‘no’. 
 
Because there weren’t any fund to start a new program like this and make place for a bunch of people.
 
Now that was a very bad news. I went back to those few people and told about it.
 
All the excitement was gone and I was perplexed about the situation.
 
I had everything planned, it was a perfect idea, a perfect time and it just didn’t happen right.
 
I sat there for a few minutes, thinking about other ways to make it happen.
 
And that’s when someone suggested that we could use the old abandoned gym of the college.
 
It was a great idea and so went back to the faculty and this time, I convinced them how great this idea was and finally got the permission.
 
Now the gym was very old and so I needed a proper cleaning, which unfortunately I had to make happen by myself.
 
I asked for help, from those who joined me. And to my surprise everyone was willing to do the cleaning.  
 
It was hard work but at last we did it. We were able to successfully start the center. And I couldn’t be more happy about it 
 
Though in the beginning very few people took interest in the activities but as I believed more in myself, I was able to make the center just as I imagined it to be.
 
It was though a little achievement, but it meant so much to me and I was very satisfied with the results.
 
I was happy that I did something for myself, by myself. But I was happier to do something for every other person in that room.
 
And the best part is, I did it all just by believing in myself and  never giving up.
 
” “
 
 
Conclusion
  • It is said that ‘nothing is impossible’. And believe me when I tell you ‘it is true’. Believe in yourself and  anything is possible.
  • There will be a thousand opinions of you by the people, but what you see yourself as, will matter the most. 
  • You have to remember one thing though, all of this would no be easy but you’ll get through, just don’t stop believing. 

When you really want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.  – The alchemist. 

Hey guys…, 

So what are you up to today?

I hope that whatever it is, is going to make your day. 

Have a happy Sunday… 

See you next time.

 

Short Story

The positive direction.

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Positivity!
 
What exactly is positivity?
 
Is it just thinking good thoughts or is it something more?
 
We think of a lot of things the whole day,
 
But how to distinguish?
 
Do you know…!
 
Our thoughts play a major role in shaping our lifestyle,
 
And hence, thinking and feeling good is important, but the more important thing is thinking right.
If I give you an example:-
You want to climb a mountain and presently you are sitting at the bottom, you are completely motivated and positive, but what you are thinking is “I am a good person” “I am beautiful” “I am talented and it doesn’t matter what people think”.
 
These are positive thoughts, right!
 
But of what use? They aren’t helping you or motivating you enough to climb a mountain.
 
What to do then? How to achieve our goals?
 
Let’s read and divert our thoughts in the right direction……….
 
 
” “
 
One day, out of nowhere, I got a thought that I should launch a podcast.
 
Now, it seemed a really good idea and a fun and productive way to spend time.
 
I went to my room and started digging my books and other stuff to get some idea on where to start.
 
I didn’t have a lot of books and so I looked in my cupboard to see if I have anything that would contribute to a podcast.
 
Only things I saw in there, were my clothes and a few things from my school days (notes and stuff).
 
I sat back on the bed, contemplating about the possibilities of me successfully launching a podcast.
 
I kept staring at my cupboard absent mindedly and then got up and started looking through my school stuff.
 
There I found some study notes, pictures of few of my friends, my schedule and book which me and my friends used to keep for fun.
 
In that book I found variety of jokes and conversations that made me nostalgic.
 
I sat there reading the book and reliving my memories, it felt good.
 
After I finished, I came up with the idea to start the podcast with my friends and we could start with the things in that book.
 
I took my phone and called them right away.
 
The conversations were long as we haven’t spoken in days, I asked them to meet up and talk, two of them agreed and we decided to get together the next day.
 
I was now very excited and motivated about my podcast. I knew deep down that it would be great.
 
I kept thinking about ‘how I was going to launch it’ ‘and where’ ‘how it should sound’ ‘how it should portray’ and so many things.
 
I got so lost in my thoughts that they now said ‘I can do it’ ‘I can do anything’ ‘I can make people believe me’.
 
And after a few hours these thoughts grew strong and said ‘I am very motivated person’ ‘I have very good friends’ ‘how lucky I am’.
 
Just like that, I flew in the direction of my thoughts, wherever they led. But then I was far too deep in them.
 
At night, I slept overthinking about everything. All the good things though, just positivity.
 
It’s strange how effective thoughts can be.
 
The next day, I was excited, I had a good feeling about the rest of my day. A positive feeling, more precisely.
 
I got ready as soon as I could and sat on the sofa waiting for my friends, as they were to come to my home.
 
It was very soon though, so I picked up something to read until they arrive.
 
I found an article on self development in the newspaper and started reading it.
 
What an article it was! Reading something like this truly changes the way you look at things as well as yourself.
 
One can develop certain habits and discipline themselves to make their way to growth.
 
And if I talk about me, I am always an enthusiast of learning and self development.
 
And thus, after reading that article I thought, why not make a schedule and keep track of the time I spend on the activities of the day.
 
As soon as I had the thought, I got up immediately to ink my routine and manage it in a productive way.
 
I listed out all the things I do and should be doing, then separated them according to importance and priorities.
 
Everything on that paper was looking good and it motivated me, but then I thought there should be some time to rest too, so I remade it.
 
But yet, I was forgetting the one most important thing which I put a lot of thought into and that was the podcast.
 
I realised, it was missing from the list when my friends arrived. Though I have put some effort in that I simply crushed it and threw it away because it wasn’t good enough.
 
Then I sat with my friends to chat and discuss about our new project together.
 
It was as though we were in school again, everyone was talking excitedly about us doing something like this together and they praised me for an idea like this.
 
I was sitting there, taking the appreciation and gloating with joy. I was so happy, so grateful.
 
‘I have great friends’, ‘I am able to do great’, ‘I am so lucky’, I thought.
 
After a day of brainstorming over various ideas, at last we came up with ‘friendship’ and ‘crazy puns’. Combining both of them would be a good start.
 
I slept well that night, and I started my morning feeling grateful and energetic.
 
After I freshened up, the first thing I looked for was my journal which I kept in school. It was very childish, I know.
 
As I started reading it, I was overwhelmed as well as laughing hard. I have mentioned such tiny details which were both cute and funny.
 
My friends arrived at noon and I showed them that journal and as expected they chuckled the whole time.
 
They both had something to show me too, the things we used to collect together, some pictures and our favourite games.
 
Now that I look back at those times I feel like we were such nerds and as we grew, it became so important to be cool that we lost our creative side.
 
But everything aside now, I had to focus on the present, what I am doing and what will matter in future.
 
I had now became the ‘good vibes only’ kind of person and I liked it that way.
 
We recorded a few clips, some of them only had our laughs, and the voices weren’t clear in some other and so on.
 
We couldn’t help ourselves while recording, it was like a guffaw in my room.
 
Even though we didn’t have one good clip, we enjoyed a lot. I was happy that my friends were in it with me.
 
After a short break and a quality conversation, we did a more sincere attempt at the recording and hence came up with at least one good clip.
 
It was late and so we decided to listen and edit it the next day and they left.
 
The following day when we met and listened to the clip, it was good but we decided we could do better and so we recorded again.
 
This time it was much better than the last so we finalised it and finished editing out first recording for the podcast.
 
Though it was complete and good, we decided to post it after we had completed a few more clips to maintain a posting streak.
 
It went on for a several days, some of the clips we liked, some of them we didn’t. We were recording but not posting still.
 
All of us were enjoying the company and the work and no one complained.
 
We knew deep down, that it was going to be great. That we will get good reviews on the things we said about friendship and also some laughter for the puns we made.
 
Now, because we were not posting one of us got tired and decided to drop out.
 
It left us in a dilemma, it was not a good sign, what to do now?
 
I proposed to convince and bring our friend back and the other one agreed with me.
 
I was determined and rather affirmative to tackle everything that came in my way.
 
But alas, we weren’t able to persuade our dear friend and the other one decided to quit too.
 
I was now once again left alone and on square one. Why did that happened?
 
I never once had a bad thought about anything that went on around me, I never thought to quit, but still everything fell apart.
 
I was devastated, maybe a little angry, but nothing was in my control and so I just relaxed and took deep breaths.
 
Years later, I became very good and successful at the podcast I launched single handedly.
 
How?
 
I discovered a secret.
 
“Just thinking good things doesn’t help. The right thoughts and the work you put in, is what really matters. Even those good thoughts which do not push you to work for what you want to achieve are ultimately a distraction.”
 
” “
 
Conclusion
  • You become, what you think and thus positivity in life is crucial.
  • Diverting your thoughts towards your goal is the most important and hardest thing, learn it
  • If you can imagine and believe it, you’re already half way there.
  • Motivate yourself enough to strive and achieve your goals.
  • Be in the lane of your goals and you’ve got success waiting for you.
 
 
HI there!
 
How are you today?
 
I hope the answer is “One step ahead from where I was yesterday.”
 
Keep thriving guys, and keep reading.
 
I’ll see you next Sunday.
 
🙋😊💜

Short Story

Distractions.

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How many times have you started doing a thing but stopped in between,
 
It can be because it was too hard to do,
 
Or because it wasn’t turning out as you expected it to,
 
I once did something like that, many of us do.
 
There lies a passion within each one of us,
 
Finding it is quite hard, and following it is even harder.
 
But, did you ever thought once that if you wouldn’t have stopped following your passion,
 
Where would it have led?
 
Let us come together and search for our passion……..
 
 
” “
 
It was as though everything was telling me that I shouldn’t do it.
 
That I was not made for doing what I really wanted to do.
 
It wasn’t a big deal, like moving mountains or having wings, I just wanted to be a speaker.
 
I just wanted people to listen to me and maybe I could help them by listening to them too.
 
It was not much that I was asking, but no one actually seemed to care.
 
What else can I do in a situation like that? I started feeling numb, and for once thought of letting it go, but how can I, for the one thing that inspired me the most was me.
 
And I wanted to inspire people like I inspire myself, but if I give up now then what will it leave me with.
 
No I’m not ready to give up, not just yet. So what if people don’t think I can do it, I know I can.
 
With these thoughts in my mind I decided to work on myself and do what I do the best.
 
Within a short period I attracted an opportunity and I was more than willing to accept it, but what came next, opened my eyes and blew my mind.
 
I was motivated yet naïve, I had a shot at putting my capabilities out there as I was invited to speak at a gathering where many renowned persons were going to be present.
 
I have tried sending my videos many times and this was the one where I got lucky.
 
Excited, I packed my bags immediately and left a week early for the place where the function was supposed to be.
 
On reaching there, I felt butterflies in my belly because this was it, a chance for me to probably make my dreams come true.
 
I rushed to the hotel, set my bag and took deep breaths to calm myself, it was like every nerve in me was going to explode.
 
At night I went site seeing where I met a few town people around my age.
 
As I was new they offered me to show the place and I agreed with them.
 
After dinner they took me to a place from where the whole city was visible and the lights were looking magical.
 
What a lovely view it was! I was totally mesmerised and didn’t want to leave there.
 
After a few hours it was now getting late and so we took off but decided to meet up again the next day.
 
I was totally thinking of involving each one of them in my journey now, because I really felt lively with them.
 
In the morning as I woke up, I had planned everything for the day and wrote it on a page.
 
I thought it was a good idea as it will save a lot of time and I will know better what’s there to do next.
 
I got ready and went out to meet my new friends, I showed them the list and they told me to keep it away as there were much other things to do which I had skipped.
 
Well, they were right though, I was after all new to the place and so I did what I was asked.
 
First we went to a café where the best breakfast in town was served as I was told.
 
And yes, I did really enjoyed the food there. I ordered a coffee with cream and waffles, the sweetness of my breakfast boosted my spirit for the day ahead.
 
The next stop was an open art gallery. It was an open place where there were canvases all around if anyone wanted to draw and the walls had lots of paintings and art on it.
 
Some of them looked highly professional, and the others seemed to be painted just for fun.
 
I thought of giving it a try and took a platte and a brush, two of my friends did the same and the others stood there encouraging us.
 
I absolutely painted like a kid, I couldn’t even think of anything to draw and there were a few flowers and grass on my board.
 
I laughed on completing my drawing and the others did the same along with the appreciation.
 
Though I can say that the other two did a great job compared to me, we clicked some pictures with our drawings and then left it at a counter.
 
They took me shopping next, there was this street which had a lots of shops and a variety of things to choose from.
 
It took most of our time and we stayed wandering there until each one of us was hungry.
 
I suggested to eat at any nearby place but they convinced me to go to a fancy restaurant which was a little far.
 
We ate our lunch joyously together, chatting about our day. It was a totally different crowd from the one back home and I was really getting involved with all of them.
 
As our lunch was over, we decided to take a rest and so we went to a garden and all of us fell down on the grass.
 
After an hour or two of relaxing I opened my eyes and actually saw how my surroundings were, the trees and the flowers looked extremely beautiful and so I got up and went for a walk.
 
It was very peaceful there as I continued walking, some of my friends joined too.
 
After a while we left and then went to another place and then another and just like that the day was over.
 
On reaching the hotel I was so exhausted that I fell asleep just as I dropped on the bed.
 
Anyways I was really having a good time with these people, it was a whole new perspective of enjoying for me.
 
Each day I was there, I discovered a new place and learned more about it. It was all very fascinating.
 
I was feeling very lucky to have found a group of friends just like these, they always encouraged me to try new things.
 
There was this one time when we all went to a shop where people were getting temporary tattoos, and I really wanted to have one but I was shy, so they took me there by hand and I got a tattoo.
 
Or another time when we went to a river and everyone was jumping from the waterfall, which I was scared to do at first but I tried it anyway and had so much fun.
 
I did so many things which I’ve never done before and I was so grateful that I got to do them.
 
That’s the kind of life every youngster would want to live and I was no other than a kid who just broke out of its shell and would give anything to have a social life as good as this.
 
But what I was giving up was much much greater than what I was actually receiving.
 
No doubt I was having fun, the most fun, I would say that I ever had. But at what cost?
 
I actually completely forgot that I had to present myself in front elite people, an opportunity that I craved for many years.
 
Or maybe I didn’t forgot but I did keep it for later. I postponed it to an extreme end and now I might not have enough time.
 
I didn’t do the very thing that I arrived early to do. My story was supposed to focus on my journey as a speaker, the experiences or the interactions I had before my big day.
 
I was devastated now, I haven’t prepared anything for my speech. All I did was hang out with my new friends.
 
What was I going to do now? Last minute presentations are never effective and I only had one day left.
 
The thing which I liked doing the most, turned out to be my worst distraction. But I can’t blame anyone else for that, it’s all on me and I was determined to make it right.
 
And then the first thing I did the next morning was to make a list of things I wanted to do that day and promised myself to follow it.
 
Whenever anyone asked me to do something different from the list, I learned saying ‘no’.
 
I kept telling myself that it is the day when I can make a difference and I would not stop until I’m satisfied with the results.
 
Of course everyone helped and I was thankful to them, afterall what is a journey without friends.
 
At night when I was about to go to sleep, I imagined myself speaking in front of many and with confidence.
 
Now there were just a few hours left before the function, I got dressed properly and invited my friends too.
 
The event was magnificent. I did my best, at least that’s what I think.
 
I poured my heart out on that stage because I knew this was all I had right now and I didn’t want to mess this up.
 
People actually liked the way I spoke, my posture, my efforts. I got many compliments, yet I knew it wasn’t over.
 
I knew I will work hard, until the end of it.
 
” “

CONCLUSION.

  • Distractions comes in various forms, sometimes we don’t even know it, what can we do is to realise it and try to focus on the work we’re supposed to do.
  • Having fun is not a problem but procrastinating and delaying what we are meant to do reduces the rate of our growth.
  • Sometimes distractions are beneficial too, but for a short time, as they help in relaxing the mind.
  • At last, it will all depend on you, in order to achieve something you have to lose certain things.

Hey lovely people!!

How are you?

So are you working on your dreams yet?

If yes, then well done. And if no, then get to it. because you have the power to make it true.

Starve all your distractions and get to it right away.

All the best,

Have a nice day,

See you next Sunday.

😊💜🙋

Short Story

Not giving up.

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What makes a person unstoppable?
 
What makes them do the impossible?
 
Is there anything helping them?
 
What asset do they have?
 
There are so many questions stopping people from following their dreams,
 
So many doubts that makes them want less,
 
But how do the people who achieve great, are able to do it?
 
Let’s look through a story and see how the magic happens……….
 
 
” “
 
I still remember that day, the day when it all began.
 
I was just a teen, fooling around with my friends, enjoying my life, breaking the rules and so and so.
 
Then one day I stumbled upon an article in the newspaper.
 
The headlines were “If you can sell it, you can do anything.”
 
It was an advertisement about a sales job. I started reading into it and it fascinated me.
 
The product was simply a miniature exercising tool kit, but I was intrigued by it’s functions.
 
I was an early bird and I always liked working out, so reading about that kit made me want to buy it.
 
I immediately got ready to head out over the address in the advertisement.
 
On reaching there I saw people selling that product with such an ease.
 
I stopped over one counter and asked for the kit for myself.
 
To be honest it was nothing like it was described in the paper, I kept looking at it and wondering ‘what made me come all the way just for this thing?’
 
Which I wasn’t even satisfied on seeing.
 
I then looked around, there were many people actually buying it. I went to their side to see what was happening.  
 
There was this one seller, who was illustrating the uses of that product with such a determination, that people were truly falling for it.
 
I then took that kit from her counter and asked “what makes it different so different?”
 
She started stating all the pros of the product, and I started analysing it.
 
I didn’t see anything wrong with what she was saying and thus I gave it a shot, and bought the kit for myself.
 
I went home and opened the kit right away, separated all the things in it and kept them in my cupboard.
 
The next day, I tried using them for my workouts. It wasn’t as easy as it was stated to me.
 
I was a little disappointed then, I knew I didn’t like the product completely when I saw it, but yet I bought it.
 
I thought of returning or replacing it and so I went back to that store.
 
I had an encounter with the same person who sold me the kit and at first I spoke in a rude tone, but as the conversation continued I got calmer and calmer.
 
I again ended up with that kit in my hands and brought it back home. Then I placed it on my table and laughed foolishly at myself.
 
But though that encounter taught me something and I got an idea of starting my own advertisement channel.
 
The only difference was that I didn’t had any product to sell and so I thought of reviewing the things that I bought in my day.
 
It went on for a few days, I posted my reviews on a newly made YouTube page and enjoyed shooting the videos.
 
At first I posted regularly and then I did it only on the weekends.
 
The number of views and followers were static and so I kept loosing interest in what I was doing.
 
Eventually I realised that I had failed miserably in sustaining my channel and so I shut it down.
 
It was the first time that I did something on my own and failing in it made me feel weak.
 
I was able to take the defeat and so I started studying the business books and followed the routines of some successful people.
 
Which later became my hobby, and I continued doing it.
 
I had a change in my mindset but other than that everything else was normal.
 
I was at the same house, the same space and doing the same thing over and over again. It was now my schedule for the day.
 
Then one day I went to the inauguration of a startup company, a friend of my dad’s had started a business in providing travel.
 
Ours was a small town and the travel business was rare, so there were many people investing in it.
 
I walked up to the owner and asked how did he came up with the idea.
 
He stated few particular things, for example- there were many people travelling to nearby cities for jobs, people in small towns were always travel enthusiast and so on.
 
The point I got from all those things was that he had a clear vision of what he was doing and what he will achieve.
 
I roamed around the venue for a few minutes when I saw the same girl from whom I bought the exercise kit.
 
I walked up to her and chatted a little while without stating I knew here and she was very friendly in nature.
 
I then subtly asked her about that kit, she told me she had known what I was up to the whole time and explained to me how she was successful in selling me the item.
 
“You knew what you were there to buy, which was a good thing, because most people just come and buy anything they are told will be beneficial to them. One has to create the trust in their customer and that’s what I do. The things I told you weren’t false at all and you believed it. When you came back with a complain, I was only able to convince you otherwise because what I was doing and giving was the truth.”
 
I was now baffled with what she was explaining to me and I stood there completely silent.
 
I then asked if it was right to sell something which does not properly work, only on the basis that what she was saying is true.
 
“The kit works properly believe me, I use it myself, what you wouldn’t have done is read the instructions properly and even if you had read them, you might not have followed them properly.” she explained to me.
 
I smiled at her and realised again that she was right, I greeted her and parted ways.
 
The next morning, I opened the kit again and looked at the instructions first.
 
I realised that there was though a little thing I was doing wrong and after that I was actually satisfied with the results.
 
Now all these things that happened to me left me wondering what would have happened if I had continued my channel and not given up on it.
 
Or what might have happened if I had started it with a better vision.
 
Yes, I read the books and followed successful people, but what would have happened if I had acted upon what I have learned.    
 
And all these things led me to believe that I was the one who was holding back and it was now the time to let go.
 
Just as I realised all that, the change in me was drastic.
 
” “
 
 
Conclusion.

  • If you have a clear vision, nothing can stop you from achieving your goals. 
  • If you are learning something, then try to imply it, or else it will just go away unused. 
  • Don’t ever give up on something you believe in and one day it will lead you to great things
 
Hello guys, 
 
So this post is written in just two hours and I really hope that you like it. 
 
It might not be as dramatic as the others but at least you all will get the gist of what I wanted to say. 
 
Just want to say that Never give up. 
 
See you next Sunday.


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Short Story

Challenging.

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What does an ideal day look like?
 
Waking up, following the routine or maybe not, and then going to bed.
 
It doesn’t sound so difficult, does it?
 
But it actually isn’t.
 
You may face many challenges, for example waking early, choosing what to wear, having a bad hair day etc.
 
These are not too hard to handle, but there are things which are.
 
Why do we face such difficulties?
 
We know, they help us grow.
 
Let’s read one such story and get a different perspective towards problems……..
 
 
” “
 
It was a Saturday evening, I was getting ready to go to a carnival with some of my friends.
 
While driving, all of us were in a cheerful mood and singing festive songs.
 
The roads around the carnival were full of lights and the night was glooming in all of its glory.
 
The sight was mesmerising as we entered the fair. Amused faces were all around us, children were holding various kinds of balloons.
 
There were so many different kinds of stalls and games, we didn’t know where to start.
 
We were getting pumped up just by the thought of roaming around all night.
 
One of my friends took us to an accessories shop and we all brought matching glasses and bracelets.
 
The fun started right away. We were exploring everything the carnival had to give us.
 
We stopped at booths, games, rides and what not.
 
It was almost midnight now, we were casually wandering, when we heard an announcement.
 
A show was about to start in which two participants were going to compete, or something like that.
 
Just after the announcement, there was a rush of people towards the place of the show.
 
We too thought of joining and moved along.
 
There were confused voices in the crowd, as no one knew what was about to happen.
 
Just then the anchor came up on the stage and welcomed the two participants.
 
One of them was skinny and wearing glasses, and the other was medium weight, with a messy head.
 
They were going to play a game, where they had given an instruction manual, few props and safety kit.
 
From the props they had to build a funny cartoon character, and the instruction manual had a few characters to choose from.
 
It was quite an easy task, everyone thought. The props were socks, buttons, paper, t-shirts etc. making a funny character was no big deal.
 
The enthusiasm was dropping gradually until there came a few people holding one huge white board.
 
Now the mystery was shifting towards the board, there were pens on the desk of the two contestants so it was pretty much clear that they had to draw something.
 
But why the huge board? Two small sized boards could have worked the same.
 
Then the anchor announced that the board will be used by the contestants to draw the cartoons first.
 
After the drawing is completed, the participants will make the toy similar to those drawing.
 
Now this was something challenging and fun. The ecstasy was back within the crowd and everyone including us started cheering.
 
The contestants were to be given fifteen minutes to draw and then almost an hour to make the cartoon.
 
As the time for the drawing began, both the challengers started striking lines on the board.
 
It was allowed to crack jokes and distract the fellow contestant and so the show was turning hilarious.
 
One of them was stealing the pens of his opponent and the other one was absently trying to find the pens until he realised they were being stolen.
 
And the whole crowd was laughing and helping at the same time, which wasn’t exactly helpful, because the people up there didn’t understand a word.
 
They both then started making fun of each other and the laughter grew even more.
 
“I wonder if you could draw worse than that if I take away your glasses.” one of them taunted.
 
“Even then I bet, it would be better than your hair.” the other replied and the laughter and applaud erupted.
 
And the opponents continued to draw and make jokes on one another.
 
“These pens and the lines are thicker than you are.”
 
“Maybe that’s why you can’t hold them well.”
 
“You should make yourself better hair with the strokes.”
 
“Paint your glasses rather than drawing on the board, you can’t do a better job with any of them.”
 
Thus they continued drawing and entertaining the crowd.
 
There were yet other mischiefs during those fifteen minutes, like messing with one another’s drawings, blinding each other and what not.
 
Time flied and soon the fifteen minutes were over. Both the drawings were extremely funny and not so complete.
 
Where there was a missing hand in one drawing, it was a missing leg in another.
 
One had an eye around the ear and the other had a nose for the neck.
 
It was thus a tremendous task to build puppet cartoons from those drawings.
 
Then the anchor invited volunteers from the crowd to add some features to the characters before starting the ‘making session’.
 
And it wasn’t allowed to rub anything out from the board.
 
Now the drawing of both the competitors were ready and tricky.
 
It was going to take more than just efforts to make the live puppets from the drawings they made.
 
Now there was a twist in the rules, the participants will make the cartoons from their opponents drawings.
 
Both of them were shocked as they had tried every single thing to ruin the other’s drawing.
 
And the audience gasped in surprise too, the show has turned even more exciting now.
 
As the stopwatch clicked both the competitors started brainstorming on the ways to make their dolls.
 
It was quite a delight to watch them try so hard to make something good out of just a drawing.
 
For a moment there I kept thinking, only if they hadn’t messed with their opponents drawing and took care of theirs, the further competition could have been much easier.
 
They both were having difficulty making the puppet out of those props.
 
No one was interfering with the other now and the crowd was watching with keen interest as they continued putting their efforts.
 
The anchor was making jokes in between to keep the crowd entertained.
 
Both the opponents were confused but still none of them gave up.
 
The audience was now split in two groups, the supporters of the fellow contestants respectively and were sharing the spirit of enthusiasm by cheering them up.
 
The competition was very tight and engaging.
 
They were gluing and sewing things together, taking care of every tiny detail.
 
It was so intriguing to see the players that I was on the verge of running up on stage for helping or participating with them.
 
The skinny guy was using the instruction manual to its fullest and making the most out of the old methods.
 
While the other guy was using each and every prop where it can be used and giving a creative and different look to its doll.
 
Soon the hour was over and the contestants were ready with their creations.
 
When the toys were shown there were laughs all around the audience but both the contestants had done a great job making the replicas of those drawings.
 
The anchor asked if the people were ready to see the results and find out who won.
 
Everyone shouted yes and he took out a page from his pocket.
 
“Well, here it says that the person who won this competition is…..” he made a dramatic pause. “No one.” and continued.
 
Everyone was stunned, and looked around as if there was a joke coming up.
 
Just then the anchor laughed and said that it was a tie.
 
The audience grew more curious, how come it can be a tie.
 
The anchor then explained that both the contestants had made similar efforts in creating something out of scrap.
 
And they both won, because the competition was all about efforts and not just about victory.
 
There were loud victorious cheers in the crowd and me and my friends looked at each other with the widest smiles.
 
We knew that this night was going to be fun and it was, but it also turned out be a lesson in persistence and achievement.

It was thus a night to remember and carry forward in our minds.

” “

Conclusion

  • There will come hundreds of challenges in life but how you cope with it will make all the difference.
  • The problems we see in other’s lives can be a lesson in ours, look properly.
  • People will always cheer you up, but you will have to work alone in your story of success. 
  • No matter how bad situations turn out, you will always find a way. You just have to be very attentive.
 
So that’s it for today.
 
How are you all doing?
 
I really hope that my words help you in one or the other way.
 
But do know, you can always do what you fix your mind at doing. 
 
See you all next Sunday. 
 
Byeeee!!
 
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